Comments on: Don’t be in a hurry! http://peekonmycloset.com/dont-be-in-a-hurry/ Everything and Anything Under The Sun Thu, 15 Mar 2012 21:43:21 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.2 hourly 1 By: skopibeb http://peekonmycloset.com/dont-be-in-a-hurry/comment-page-1/#comment-17 skopibeb Tue, 07 Oct 2008 21:42:51 +0000 http://peekonmycloset.com/?p=79#comment-17 ...from SAKSHI Looks like I’m in an all lovey-dovey mood today Well… how many times have you heard this - ‘If you love someone, set her free. If she comes back, she’s yours. If she doesn’t, she never was.’ I’ve heard it like some zillion times till date… and each time I’ve heard this, I felt something’s wrong in there… and finally I know what! Do you really think that if you love someone and that someone, for some reason, feels detached or slipping out of the relationship, you should just set them free and let them be and actually slip out? No. I don’t think so. What if that someone feel that this person just doesn’t care whether I’m there or not… I think one should make an effort, never let them go, hold them, trust them, love them, and cherish them. You can’t just ‘let it be’ if you see the love fading out, provided you really are in love… you must work on it! There are so many times in any relationship when you feel everything is just falling apart… imagine if no one makes an effort at that point and just keep singing this stupid quote in their minds, it will actually fall apart. I mean how would the person know what he/she means? i don’t say that if you love someone, keep them in a cage…you can’t. But don’t just take it for granted that they will come back to you in any case…in teh times of adversity, you need to tell them that they are needed back…. only if you LOVE someone! …from SAKSHI

Looks like I’m in an all lovey-dovey mood today

Well… how many times have you heard this – ‘If you love someone, set her free. If she comes back, she’s yours. If she doesn’t, she never was.’ I’ve heard it like some zillion times till date… and each time I’ve heard this, I felt something’s wrong in there… and finally I know what!

Do you really think that if you love someone and that someone, for some reason, feels detached or slipping out of the relationship, you should just set them free and let them be and actually slip out? No. I don’t think so. What if that someone feel that this person just doesn’t care whether I’m there or not… I think one should make an effort, never let them go, hold them, trust them, love them, and cherish them. You can’t just ‘let it be’ if you see the love fading out, provided you really are in love… you must work on it!

There are so many times in any relationship when you feel everything is just falling apart… imagine if no one makes an effort at that point and just keep singing this stupid quote in their minds, it will actually fall apart. I mean how would the person know what he/she means?

i don’t say that if you love someone, keep them in a cage…you can’t. But don’t just take it for granted that they will come back to you in any case…in teh times of adversity, you need to tell them that they are needed back…. only if you LOVE someone!

]]> By: skopibeb http://peekonmycloset.com/dont-be-in-a-hurry/comment-page-1/#comment-16 skopibeb Tue, 07 Oct 2008 20:08:44 +0000 http://peekonmycloset.com/?p=79#comment-16 Right person to be loved is undetermined. Circumstances may put relationships at risk and end up as a failure (which most of us consider it to be). We may determine who the right person is when worlds you are with are crumbling against your will and yet he/she stays with you till the end and not thinking that it's the end for both of you. Hurting each other is a given fact phenomena in a relationship. Times may be rough but if you consistently overturn the events, it would negate the premise for destiny. Take earlier actions before it's too late (which I've learned recently). Put an ellipses instead of a dot. Destiny is a matter of luck and a misbelief. Believing in destiny will make relationships be destined to failures. But mistakes make you even stronger and learning from it gives you the courage to fight for what you believe in. Should you be in doubt, just close your eyes, have faith in what you believe in and you will see the light.:) Right person to be loved is undetermined. Circumstances may put relationships at risk and end up as a failure (which most of us consider it to be). We may determine who the right person is when worlds you are with are crumbling against your will and yet he/she stays with you till the end and not thinking that it’s the end for both of you. Hurting each other is a given fact phenomena in a relationship. Times may be rough but if you consistently overturn the events, it would negate the premise for destiny. Take earlier actions before it’s too late (which I’ve learned recently). Put an ellipses instead of a dot. Destiny is a matter of luck and a misbelief. Believing in destiny will make relationships be destined to failures. But mistakes make you even stronger and learning from it gives you the courage to fight for what you believe in. Should you be in doubt, just close your eyes, have faith in what you believe in and you will see the light.:)

]]> By: Sakshi http://peekonmycloset.com/dont-be-in-a-hurry/comment-page-1/#comment-15 Sakshi Mon, 29 Sep 2008 08:20:41 +0000 http://peekonmycloset.com/?p=79#comment-15 I completely agree on this... failed relationships are not meant to make you stronger... and as they say...you can't value the light unless you've experienced darkness! I completely agree on this… failed relationships are not meant to make you stronger… and as they say…you can’t value the light unless you’ve experienced darkness!

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